F-SQUAD ADVENTURES CONTINUE

Conclusion

2011-01-25T19:27:00.000-07:00

Time has come to officially end this blog. Thanks to my sweet daughter-in-law, Diana, we received a beautiful hard copy for Christmas. It will be a dear reminder of a wonderful time. We are healthy, happy and busy - with the routine of life. We are truly blessed with those things which matter most. What about another mission? Yes, we are considering another mission- maybe 2012. Maybe I will create another blog then.
In the mean time, I close this chapter.

Summer time and the livin'....

2010-07-07T11:16:00.000-06:00

While I have been struggling with what retirement really means, real life has taken over. I guess it is not so important to identify your stage of life as it is just to keep on living it. We have been home from our mission for over 3 months. Our "First" mission will always have a special place in my heart. Once in a while my mind wanders and I find myself day dreaming about Colorado. On the other hand, We are having some grand experiences and filling our life with family, friends and projects.

Progress! Our home is receiving a face lift and it is going to be gorgeous.

Our Salsa Garden tradition returns. Tomatoes, chilies, garlic and a few extras. Stop by for garden salsa and chips this fall, but don't wait too long or you might just miss out.

Behind the tree and next to the shed you can see our Pumpkin Patch. I recently thinned smaller plants out and we now have 26 plants. I don't think the thinning is over. Keep your fingers crossed that come September this little patch will be filled with orange pumpkins.

Rain & cool weather didn't dampen our Independence Day with family & our good friends the Munns.

We spent several days in the beautiful mountains near Lewistown Montana as we assisted with our Stake Girl's camp. Fred helped lead the 4th year hike. Two days and nights and 18 miles of grueling terrain with some pretty tough young women. A confidence builder for the girls, a back breaker for Fred.

Additionally we spent 8 days with our three darling grandchildren in Spokane while their Mom and Dad went to Alaska. Thanks Ashton (6), Chloe (4) and Oli (almost 2) for taking it easy on your old grandparents!

We still have a 40 yr High School reunion, a family reunion and a trip to Oregon before summer is over.

A busy life is a good life!

Figuring out retirement

2010-04-27T17:06:00.001-06:00

We are home and I'm finally feeling like it! Our first post-mission month has passed in a blur. Our home has been filled with family; our garage with boxes. I guess you really can say our life is "full". Sorry, I guess maybe that's what retired people do- make really bad jokes. Our "to do" list continues to grow, and yet the only deadlines we have are self imposed. I still have the "we can't play until our chores are done" mindset. Wonder if I will ever get over that one. We have new church callings. Family history consultants- both. Priest advisor- Fred. Assistant camp director- me. Fun! I love that we are given callings and have the privilege of being involved in the work of the church. Do I miss the mission? Yes, but not as much as I did. I started missing the mission a little in January, when our duties changed. I miss being mission busy and doing mission work. I miss the pervasive sense of purpose I had in mission life. I miss sooooo many people. Yes I miss the mission. But I love being home. I love running into friends at Smith's grocery or Wal-mart. I love seeing neighbors as we get the mail each day. I love having my mother, plus some of my daughters, sons-in-law and grandchildren so close. It feels good to reconnect with our ward family. It's comfortable to drive familiar streets and see familiar sites. Some things changed in our absence, but most are the same. Yes, it's good to be home! I still don't have retirement figured out. I think that will come eventually. Probably about the time we put our papers in for another mission!

Project #1- Our 30 year old home is receiving a face lift.

Dr. Fred is on the job!

You know you are home when....

2010-03-28T20:30:00.008-06:00

Side of Hay with your Big Mac?

Honest to goodness, no digital retouch-
this is what we saw at our first stop in Montana.
Oh how I love this state!
Yes....We are home!!

Mission accomplished

2010-03-19T19:04:00.002-06:00

When I started this blog, I intended to use it to share our missionary experience. In the end I have shared some glimpses of life- during our mission. Subtle difference, yet different still the same. I wonder how anyone can really share a mission through pictures and words. As I review the posts from the last 18 months, I have a sense that I did not quite succeed with what I set out to do. So I will make one last post from our mission before we start our trek home in less than two days.

This mission was about love! That's it plain and simple.

Never in my life have I been more sure of our Heavenly Father's love for His children. All of His children. My heart has been softened time and time again as I see the effect of the atonement of Jesus Christ in my life and in others. I have never before grown to love so many people so quickly. We have read from the Book of Mormon daily with the focus of lifting others. I can not adequately express how my love for the words from this sacred volume of scripture has grown. My love and appreciation for church leaders at all levels has been strengthened. I have gained a deep sense of gratitude for the Priesthood and those who honor it. My prayers are sweeter as they are often expressions of love. Separation from our family has only proved to increase my love for them and gratitude for the Gospel of Jesus Christ that binds us. Fred and I have grown closer in every way. We have had sacred experiences which have not only enlarged our testimonies, but have connected us in a way that is impossible to explain.

Yes it is hard to leave. Yes it will be hard to be released as full time missionaries. But I have not one regret. The time has come. Our mission is all but over and I can feel it. My mind and heart has turned to home and family. I am anxiously anticipating many joyful reunions. We will bring home many keepsakes from our mission. Pictures, gifts, letters, and more. We will have cherished memories to share. Above all we will have the gift of Love.

CES Broadcast

2010-03-12T15:25:00.002-07:00

Sunday night we had about a dozen Young Single Adults and a few "oldsters" to our home for dinner and a Church Education System Broadcast. For us this has been a regular event over the 18 months of our mission. We love it! We fix a LOT of food (consider it an added incentive) and we seldom have left-overs. Together we watch an inspired message from a church leader on the BYU channel. Afterwards we have dessert and a discussion on the topic. This time we learned about the importance of choosing and being good friends and mentors. Then we socialize and maybe play some games. We love these fine young people. We will miss them. We will miss so many things. Just like we missed so many people and things at home while we were gone! Thus is life. I am just happy we are blessed with good friends in two beautiful states!

So there you have it. Another last for our mission. There won't be many more because we are running out of time. Nine days to go!

More men of God

2010-02-21T19:45:00.003-07:00

Another inspiring event in our mission! Elder L Tom Perry came to instruct us. He was sharp, humorous, wise and inspiring. We were so blessed to be in the presence of this apostle- another of the Lord's servants. In the picture on his left is President Halstrom (of the 70) and on his right is Elder Funk (an area authority, but soon to be a mission president). These fine men also spoke to us. President Pfile conducted the meeting and shared some inspiring and motivating comments. A truly amazing and memorable experience! And another last for us in this mission. Still....I can't feel to sorry for myself. Twice a year we all have the opportunity to receive inspiring messages from servants of the Lord. So I will just look forward to April's General Conference- and sitting in our own Montana home listening to General Authorities and other church leaders. How blessed are we to be part of this great church and this great work.

Last Transfer Day

2010-02-10T14:09:00.002-07:00

Today was transfer day. The last one of our mission. The next transfer for the Colorado Springs mission we will either be home, or caravan-ing north on I-25 with home in sight. These pictures are of a previous transfer day... today we had snow and cold. Still you can get an idea of the logistics of relocating dozens of missionaries, their baggage and their bicycles. They are headed to new assignments in four different states. It's an exciting day for them, sometimes mixed with uncertainty or even a little sadness over leaving the people to whom they have ministered as well as those with which they have served. Volunteers drive to Colorado Springs from all corners of the mission. Some drive for over five hours. Before the actual transfers begin, the President conducts a brief meeting with all the missionaries being transferred and also those who just arrived. He introduces the new missionaries and Sister Pfile reads a short bio of each one. Then with a bit of drama, he makes a guessing game out of where these new missionaries will go and whom their trainers (first mission companions) will be. It's fun for the missionaries and creates a sense of excitement and anticipation. After the President is done, he and the zone leaders head to the mission home for a two day training session. At that point the Vehicle Coordinator is left to manage the ensuing chaos- with the help of the Assistants to the President (affectionately known as the "APs"). In the end, all the missionaries are safely on the way; loaded in the correct cars going to the right locations. Not always so with their "stuff", but eventually even that finds its way. Fred has always done a very good job of organizing transfer days, though it definitely tested his patience. He might have been known to be a little crabby- but only briefly. He says he won't miss this part of his mission assignment. Here's a little secret.. he will too miss it!!! He loves those missionaries. He will miss anything that allowed him to spend time with them, even if it was chaotic and tried his patience.

Just another one of many "lasts" for us. I don't like lasts, but how can you have more firsts if you don't have lasts? I will try to keep that in mind.

Goodbye Hello

2010-02-01T15:01:00.005-07:00

Missions seem to be a series of hellos and goodbyes. I LOVE hellos! Goodbyes are not my favorite, but they are inevitable. So are tears and smiles!

GOODBYE

We recently said farewell to the Richardsons and Beckwiths, who successfully completed their missions. Fred and Nancy are now basking in the warmth of their Phoenix home. Lynn and Sue served an at home mission, so are quickly filling their time with long postponed plans and projects. The memories made with these fine missionaries will always be a treasure. We are grateful for modern lines of communication that will help us stay in touch with our mission friends.

HELLOTwo weeks ago we sat in as Elder and Sister Cherry were set apart as full time missionaries, serving an "at home" mission. They have taken our former duties as Fleet Coordinators plus some additional office duties. The Giffords arrived fresh from the MTC in October. They have become an invaluable asset to the mission. Four wonderful dedicated and willing servants of God! Each sharing their talents and hard work to assist in the labors of the Colorado Springs Mission. We are so very happy they are here. The only sad part is that we will serve with them such a short time before we head home. Still, we are grateful to get to know them.

SEVEN... very short weeks until we load up our van, trailer and u-haul then say a tearful goodbye to our mission and all the people we have come to love. Too many goodbyes! Yet some joyous hellos waiting for us at the other end as we are reunited with family and friends. Until then, we have seven weeks to continue working in the greatest mission of all!

A Man of God

2010-01-27T06:46:00.004-07:00

We had an unforgettable experience on Friday night. President Dieter F. Uchtdorf came to speak to the cadets at the Air Force Academy. In response to Fred's request, he not only agreed to include soldiers and spouses, but asked for a private meeting after his address. About 1200 people poured into the beautiful AF Academy chapel. Though his words were specifically focused on the cadets, the principles had universal application. It was an inspiring experience.

Then after the devotional was over, Fred led our little band of about 80 soldiers and wives down several flights of stairs to a small choir practice room. We waited patiently to have just a few minutes of personal time with this beloved apostle. About 30 minutes passed as he gradually made his way through the crowd shaking hands and greeting people as he came.

When he walked into the room a Spirit of Love descended on all of us. It was as tangible as the warmth from the furnace. We quietly listened to his message of faith, courage and charity. What we thought would be just a few minutes became an hour, then thirty minutes more until he reluctantly and slowly made his way toward the door to leave. He answered every question with profound gospel truth. He testified of Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ in many ways and with conviction. He communicated love in every thing he said and in the tears that welled in his eyes frequently. He expressed gratitude for the sacrifices the Army families make, and assured them that their cause was of the utmost importance. Although he was compassionate concerning their heavy burden, he did not dwell on the hardship. Instead he gave them practical and inspiring ideas about how to bear their burden.

He was sincerely reluctant to leave and we were reluctant to have him leave. We are so incredibly grateful for his attention to and love for these soldiers and their families. As we ended a very long evening, I felt as though I had been sitting at the feet of the Savior. In many ways it is true. For we sat at the feet of an Apostle filled with the Savior's love. What a joy, a privilege, and an amazing blessing. This will ever be one of the choicest experiences of my life.

Then and Now

2010-01-04T19:03:00.008-07:00

Me with Grandpa- outside our family home on Baltic.

You've heard people say "time flies", I would add it can also evaporate before your very eyes. We have just completed the first decade of the 21st Century. I think of our home as new, but we actually moved in 30 years ago in December. In a few months our oldest grandson graduates from high school and our oldest daughter reaches the big 4-0! Yes, time is simply disappearing. In fact, 12 short weeks from today our mission ends. We still have time to do some good work and enjoy the friends we have made, but 12 weeks boils down to 2 transfers and they happen in a blink of an eye. I sometimes feel a a little melancholy as I consider the passing of time. Then again, we have had such wonderful experiences and joyous memories that it is fun to know we can enjoy both "then and now". With that thought in mind, I intend to make the most of these last few weeks so that they will become a fond memory and a joyful "then".

Here a few pictures of our history in Colorado- now and then!

The North Pole

Our 1974 apartment in Widefield- and how it looks today.

The yard of Grandma's house in the 70's and 2009.

Our quarters on Fort Carson 1974 and 2008. (also some then missionaries and a now missionary!)

Happy 2010!!!

Catch up

2009-12-27T18:13:00.006-07:00

I have been unable to add posts to my blog for the last few weeks, due to technical difficulty. NO REALLY!!! I actually did try and could not "sign-in". Misti had the same trouble when she tried to add something to her blog from our computer, but she figured it out. Then told me what I needed to do. So here we go. Lots has happened over the last few weeks. I will try fill in the gap a little at a time as I think of things to share. They may not be in any logical order because that is how my brain works these days. For now here are some picture highlights:

Thanksgiving... friends, food, traditions and games!

Santa visits, family fun & the North Pole!

No Trunky Missionaries !!!

That reminder courtesy of Mike & Kelli who drew our name for the family ornament exchange.

No, we are not "trunky"... well not exactly. We have plans to finish strong, but we are aware that we have less than 3 months left in our mission.

There you go for now... but watch for more pictures to come. IF... I can find which file actually contains the rest of the downloaded pictures from the last two months.

Vinyl-ish-ous

2009-11-03T17:44:00.004-07:00

My daughter, Misti, has a vinyl lettering business. I saw her fall crafts on her blog and ordered a few vinyl pieces for a project. She surprised me and sent a whole bunch of fall vinyl cutouts. Here are the projects I completed. WOW! Even I have a crafty side- well at least I can peal and stick!

Thanks Misti- I am hooked!

Flash backs and traditions

2009-11-03T17:19:00.002-07:00

In 1984 Fred went to Officer's Candidate School in Tennessee. He was gone over 2 months. It was a long and lonely time for him, away from his family. Plus we ALL missed him terribly. So one FHE I traced each of our 7 kids on newspaper end roll and made paper doll cut outs. They each drew on the details and wrote a message to their dad. We put them in a large envelope and sent them off. He loved them, though he paid a price in daily push-ups to keep them hanging.

Fred in 1984.

October 15th was our 40th anniversary.

Our kids organized a delightful surprise.

32 paper doll cutouts of our children and grandchildren came to us in individually wrapped celebration boxes. We had so much fun! This was the perfect gift for two old missionaries missing their family. The pictures below show our guest room, covered wall to wall and nearly floor to ceiling with cutouts of our family. I know the pictures aren't great, but its the best we could do. You have to be here to really appreciate this sight, which will stay up until we head home!

Martha Stewart may not approve,

but this is my favorite way to decorate a guest room!

Who's That Lady?

2009-10-22T17:19:00.004-06:00

Business owner, realtor, writer, painter, gardener, beauty, care-giver, driver, FAST driver, world traveler, fashion setter, home maker, genealogist, cumputer geek, candy and cake maker, fryer of the world's best chicken, budgeter, adventurer, wife, sister, daughter, mother, grandmother, friend and...

Betty Jo Curtis! Our favorite birthday girl!

We love you.

Your family.

A New Point of View

2009-10-04T16:02:00.003-06:00

Over the last six years we have made several attempts to ride in a hot air balloon. First in Montana, next New Mexico, then California and recently many attempts right here in Colorado. Our efforts were thwarted by... miscommunication, scheduling conflicts, fog, snow, wind- well you get the picture. Last Saturday we snuck up on our scheduled flight. We made no announcements. No blog or facebook posts. Not only that, but we decided it would be our last Colorado attempt. If we couldn't get the weather to cooperate then we knew our chances would be slim during the winter months. So off we went to the appointed place at the appointed time. We were so excited when we launched as scheduled- with another balloon following close behind. The rest of the story is in the pictures... simply amazing.

Fred seems to take this as a sign I have become quite adventurous and is busy planning a few post mission experiences... well we'll see. For now I am content with our beautiful fall balloon ride.

Family is Forever

2009-09-26T07:21:00.002-06:00

We enjoyed Mom's short visit last week. Touring beautiful Colorado was such fun. Recalling childhood memories and listening to stories of family members (some no longer with us) was even better. This is a picture of Mom and cousin Blanche at Bishop's castle. You can also see cousin Ricky climing up the hill below. Choice experiences and choice memories.

Ah but ain't that America

2009-09-26T06:35:00.004-06:00

Bishop's Castle near Rye Colorado. Brought to you by the hard work and talent of Jim Bishop. He not only shares this amazing structure at no cost, but includes a demonstration of spontaneous freedom of speech with little or no prompting. The castle is a three dimensional protest sign. Although you are free to disagree, he will quickly warn that you better agree. No threat - just his warning voice of impending doom at the hands of our government. Agree or NOT... castles, conspiracies and commentary make this a trip worth taking!!! The short clip below is just the beginning. The volume and intensity picked up as he continued... for 10 or 15 minutes.

The lyrics of John Mellencamp's "Pink Houses" keeps going through my mind!
Ah but ain't that America for you and me

Ain't that America somethin' to see baby

Ain't that America home of the free, yeah

We Thank Thee Oh God for a Prophet

2009-09-11T09:01:00.003-06:00

Eight years have passed since the devastating attack on our nation. Hard times are upon our nation and the world. I will ever remember that morning and the feelings of fear and sorrow. Hearts all across our nation turned to God and prayers ascended to Heaven. I also remember the comfort we received as we listened to the words of our dear prophet, Gordon B Hinkley. What a choice blessing- then and now. To understand that we have a prophet today. To know that God speaks to us through him. As we remember that fateful day, let us also remember a few of the comforting and inspiring words the prophet at the time spoke to us.

From the November 2001 Ensign;

"The Times in Which We Live"

I have just been handed a note that says that a U.S. missile attack is under way. I need not remind you that we live in perilous times. I desire to speak concerning these times and our circumstances as members of this Church.

You are acutely aware of the events of September 11, less than a month ago. Out of that vicious and ugly attack we are plunged into a state of war. It is the first war of the 21st century. The last century has been described as the most war-torn in human history. Now we are off on another dangerous undertaking, the unfolding of which and the end thereof we do not know.

No one knows how long it will last. No one knows precisely where it will be fought. No one knows what it may entail before it is over. We have launched an undertaking the size and nature of which we cannot see at this time. Occasions of this kind pull us up sharply to a realization that life is fragile, peace is fragile, civilization itself is fragile

Now, brothers and sisters, we must do our duty, whatever that duty might be.

Let us be prayerful. Let us pray for righteousness. Let us pray for the forces of good. Let us reach out to help men and women of goodwill, whatever their religious persuasion and wherever they live. Let us stand firm against evil, both at home and abroad. Let us live worthy of the blessings of heaven, reforming our lives where necessary and looking to Him, the Father of us all. He has said, “Be still, and know that I am God”

Are these perilous times? They are. But there is no need to fear. We can have peace in our hearts and peace in our homes. We can be an influence for good in this world, every one of us.

VICTORY

2009-09-07T16:20:00.002-06:00

One snazzy cage to keep out sneaky little critters brought us sweet victory. No more gnawed almost ripe tomatoes, just fresh fruit for us. My husband is a genius! Now those pesky rodents are after our grapes!

SURPRISE!!

2009-09-07T16:13:00.002-06:00

We enjoyed a wonderful surprise Saturday evening. Three unexpected visitors knocked on our door. Three former Colorado Springs Missionaries came back to visit a few people in the mission and stopped by to say hi. What a treat. Fine young men who entertained us with their teasing and brightened our home. Matt, Nick and Brett. Hard to use their first names- such a pleasure to have a short reunion with some of our favorite people.

Traditions

2009-09-07T16:02:00.004-06:00

Jim and Diana came to visit us this week. We have been having lots of fun. Today we went to "Big Train" for brunch, upon recommendation of my mother. Mom thought I might remember eating here. Although I don't remember, I did order biscuits and gravy in Dad's honor. It only seemed fitting. Good food! Thanks for the suggestion Mom.

Joys of Missionary Work

2009-09-07T15:56:00.002-06:00

We were blessed to attend the sealing of a young army family. It took place at the Denver temple. Due to some unusual circumstances we were in the temple for over 5 hours. What a wonderful gift. Peace, joy, gratitude, love, charity, enlightenment, understanding, service... the fruits of temple work. Truly heavenly!

Spouting off

2009-08-27T16:55:00.003-06:00

Forgive me while I vent for just a few minutes. I just need to get this off my chest. I am tired of people going on and on about how little time they have. These are the people who usually respond to your latest comment with "I wish I had the time to do that!" The hidden message is that their tasks are much more important than yours. They intimate that they are indispensable, like the world would stop without their efforts. They are the same people who need to tell you how late they went to bed and how early they got up. They send you email messages at the strangest hours (when they find time to send them at all). If you ask me they do it to impress you with how late they are up finishing up their chores. They usually talk to you in the "you can't possibly understand" tone of voice. I have a little message for them...

WE ALL HAVE THE SAME 24 HOURS EACH DAY!!!!!!!!

I have been busy in my life, but I have known it was by my choice. No one dropped seven children on my porch. No one forced me to take college classes while I was raising them. If I would rather clean a closet at 2 am than sleep...well that was my choice also. When I was a social worker, cases would pile up, and we would sit in court hour after hour... I would teasingly say to our County Attorney- "Two weeks notice, and this isn't my problem any more." It was said in humor, but was also a reminder that I had a choice. I remember the day I sat next to the County Attorney during a heated court case, turned to her and smiled then said "In two weeks this isn't my problem any more." I had given my notice. I had finally come to the point that I was ready to spend my given 24 hours a day some other way If I had been stuck in that job because of debt or lifestyle- that would have been my choice also. Now I know that some people have challenges that require them to do things seemingly beyond their choice. I am not without compassion for those with family or health issues that limit their choices... still we all have some choices.

So dear readers, I truly understand if you are feeling overwhelmed. You have my sympathy if your energy is gone before your tasks are done. You are welcome to vent if that helps. But please... please... please don't make yourself feel better by assuming my time is less valuable or my tasks are less important. I would go on, but I am out of TIME.

Crazy Critters

2009-08-25T14:05:00.005-06:00

Two carefully planted and tenderly cared for tomato plants.
Branches weighed down with round green orbs and
long Roma's just waiting to ripen in the sun.
Promises of lush red fruit. So sweet and delightful.

Small furry creatures.
Playfully chasing through the tall trees.
Clicking and squeaking as they call to one another.
Tapping of small paws across our roof.
Adorable little clowns.

Watching and waiting, ever so patiently for the fruit to reach its peak.
Expectations of sweet perfection.
Wait... wait... not yet.

WHAT??? WHERE IS THAT RED TOMATO?
What kind of neighbors sneak into your yard in broad daylight
to snatch your nice tomato when it was nearly ready.
Evidence of the crime.
Dastardly deed!
SQUIRRELS!
Demonic rodents. Hideous pests. Day by day stealing each nearly ripened fruit.
How do they know the right time to grab it- hours before our planned harvest?
No garden tomatoes for us this year.
BUT... we have a pellet gun by our back door
And... I am collecting recipes.
Squirrel stew anyone?

Cano's Castle

2009-08-23T20:15:00.003-06:00

2 Chronicles 27:4 ...he built cities in the mountains of Judah, and in the forests he built castles and towers.

We enjoyed a little working vacation Friday as we hopped into the 12 passenger mission van with another mission couple. We pulled a large trailer full of supplies and furniture over the beautiful La Vita mountain pass. After a quick stop in Alamosa to recruit some laborers (also known as Zone Leaders) and grab a bite to eat we headed off to Antonita to set up an apartment.

We saw some beautiful scenery. I especially loved the green trees and red rocks of the mountains and the wide expanse of the high desert. We also saw some very interesting structures- including a castle. Yep... a CASTLE. Or at least that is what they call it. I was totally fascinated and could have studied it for hours. But we had tasks to complete. So I had to be satisfied with taking a few pictures. The pictures do not do the magnificent structure justice. Words can not describe it either.

Unfortunately a google search provided information that may detract from the splendor of this handmade wonder- such as references to the creator's inspiration. Still, its worth a few key strokes to learn the history. Here's what I found... Built by Donald "Cano" Espinoza, a Native American Vietnam vet, whose main influences for the Castle are "Vitamin Mary Jane" and Jesus, it is a wonder to behold. Built largely out of beer cans and other metal refuse, for Espinoza it serves as a thanks for having his life spared during the war. Cano's castle is actually four separate structures. "The king", "the queen", "the palace" and "the rook". The four story "king" house, covered in beer cans and hubcaps gleaming in the sunlight, is by far the crowning architectural achievement.

Friends and Fun

2009-08-03T21:31:00.003-06:00

Mark and Sue were able to spend 5 days with us.

We picked right up where we left off- as if we had seen each other just a couple days before. The time went too fast- shopping, cooking, walking, games, and a real live train ride... just too much fun! They keep trying to convert us to the wonders of VERY HOT chilies- we keep trying to covert them to the wonderful blessings of our church. So far its a draw- neither of us are making much headway. Oh well... they are forever friends so maybe... just maybe we will both convert the other to our causes. So glad they came!

ps... I think it might be time to delete some old posts. I will clean up the blog in a week or two, right before I add another post.

Cookout in Garden City

2009-08-03T21:27:00.001-06:00

President, E Frost and Fred grilling burgers for some very hungry Elders.

This was a reward for an exceptional and record setting month- 87 baptisms.

Happy Trails

2009-08-03T21:22:00.002-06:00

Fred was invited to speak at girl's camp.
We enjoyed a beautiful drive, the darling 17th Ward girls, and the lovely mountain campground. So many years of girls camp behind us- how fun to add this experience to those memories.

Happy Events

2009-08-03T21:15:00.002-06:00

Ken and Diane came to Colorado Springs to celebrate some pretty special events. The sealing of their son and wife, plus the baptism of a grandson. They stayed with us and we were able to join some of the activites. We loved spending time with their sweet family- and catching up with dear friends.

WAY behind!

2009-08-03T20:50:00.005-06:00

The summer is slipping away and fall is just around the corner. I have to admit I am looking forward to that. Yet I find it hard to believe that we will reach the 1 year mark of our mission in just a few short weeks. Time is speeding by and the mission work never slows down. I am using this for an excuse for being so far behind on blog posts! I will try to post a few highlights. First the wonderful visit from Jake's family:

North Pole Amusement Park

Splashing in the pool at the RV park- we were visiting a new member friend of ours

Traditional visit to IT'Z.
The kids were able to stay with us for a week. We had such a good time. Saying goodbye was so hard since we don't know where or when we will see them again. But we are so very happy for the wonderful opportunities they will have with Jake's new job. AND... we are setting up a serious travel fund!

Happy Birthday America

2009-07-03T23:20:00.009-06:00

These are the times that try men’s souls. The summer soldier and the sunshine patriot will in this crisis, shrink from the service of his country; but he that stands it now, deserves the love and thanks of man and woman.” Thomas Paine

The pictures were taken in Afghanistan summer of 2007. Fred celebrated the 4th of July that year in the company of soldiers and airmen. We had our traditional celebration with some anxiety but with added pride.

As you find your own way to celebrate the birth of our nation, please remember the many American troops and their families at this difficult time. Keep them in your prayers and thank them when you see them. And please... please remember our Afghan brothers and sisters who hope and pray for the Peace and Liberty we enjoy. We are our brother's keeper if we are filled with charity! May we always remember that our nation was formed as one "under God" and may He bless our land.

Man in the Mirror

2009-06-28T17:20:00.005-06:00

I'm starting with the man in the mirror

I'm asking him to change his ways

And no message could have been any clearer

If you wanna make the world a better place

Take a look at yourself and then make a change

Michael Jackson.

Somehow his sad passing and even sadder life has caused me to reflect on my own desire to make changes. I believe most of us strive to make changes- improvements. Michael's life is chronicled by pictures which tell the story of his driving need to change. Now, at the time of his death, those images flash before our eyes and invite dialog and disagreement regarding his character. I feel a sense of ambivalence toward the debate between those who viewed him as an artistic genius and those who consider him a deeply disturbed pedophile. I guess we will never really know where the truth lies. I just know his story is sad. So much talent. Such a public life. Yet a life cut short, leaving questions, speculation and criticism. I am grateful that a loving and merciful Heavenly Father will determine the eternal consequences for Michael.

The lyrics above (from "Man in the Mirror") cause me to take pause to evaluate my own life. Serving as a full time missionary has opened my eyes to the changes I need to make within. At this late date in my life, I am finding how God will still uncover my weaknesses and through the atonement of his Son provide the grace that will allow me to turn my weaknesses into strengths. Turn envy into joy for other's accomplishments. Turn frustration into patience and acceptance. Turn a desire to change others into recognition and motivation to make changes in myself. The Spirit softens my heart and opens my eyes allowing me to see all I meet as God's children. Discouragement over my flaws is replaced with joy in God's love and His power to heal and transform His children.

How grateful I am to have this knowledge. What a blessing to set aside this time of life to share what I cherish with others. I invite you to read the quote below, made by Ezra Taft Benson- a modern day prophet. May this principle inspire you to overcome those traits that weigh you down. May the knowledge that you are truly a child of God bring you strength, hope and peace as it ever does for me.

"The Lord works from the inside out. The world works from the outside in. The world would take people out of the slums. Christ takes the slums out of people, and then they take themselves out of the slums. The world would mold men by changing their environment. Christ changes men, who then change their environment. The world would shape human behavior, but Christ can change human nature."

Men

2009-06-17T18:28:00.003-06:00

All of my life I have been blessed to be surrounded by real men- men who are very important to me. My father, my husband, brothers, sons and sons-in-law, church leaders and more. The world needs more real men. What do I mean by real men? Check out the following link.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BQIQA6s2_Hw

2009-06-13T14:21:00.002-06:00

IN THIS MISSION WE BAPTIZE
May was a record setting month in the Colorado Springs Mission. Our missionaries brought 87 of Heavenly Father's Children to the waters of baptism. Allowing them to enter the gate of the path that leads to eternal life.

THE NEW CROP

Every six weeks the "new crop" arrives. "Greenies"!This time we received 15 new missionaries. We also found a few interesting connections. One young Elder from Pason Utah played soccer with our daughter-in-law Kindra's brothers. A young Sister from New Jersey has close ties to our friends the Carpenters,back home. Finally, we were assigned to drive a young Elder to his assignment in Kansas. During the course of the conversation we found out that our son Jake served with his brother in Johannesburg South Africa-and they were very good friends. That is NOT all! We found out that our son-in-law Chad not only served in this young man's home town- but ate in his home and knew his other brother. We actually made calls from the cars to our children to confirm the possibilities. These kind of connections happen all the time. We truly are one big family!

MUSIC STIRS THE SOUL

The Fountain Zone missionaries put together a musical fireside. The music was wonderful and the spirit was sweet. The featured artist in the brown suit) is an investigator that agreed to perform with these young missionaries.

One last look at the 2009, Colorado Springs, Girls plus Fred weekend!

2009-06-01T19:42:00.006-06:00

Favorite things gift buckets!

Don't you dare take a picture!

I LOVE borrrrreeetos!

We had fun playing a few games-

Khanyi was rolling on the floor with laughter.

Please don't hit me lady.

This is actually the man that owns our old family home.

He asked Mom lots of questions and she was pointing out

some of the changes in the house.

Don't worry Kindra, we have you.

We took a hike to Helen Hunt falls.

Shhhh... quiet honey the children are sleeping!

The weekend came to an end, but the joyful memories will live on. This will forever be one of my very favorite times. I have the best of all blessings... a loving family!

The Amazing Women

2009-05-27T14:45:00.002-06:00

Garden of the Gods is the place to take pictures. Here are two of many taken during our now infamous sisters' trip. The picture is missing Heidi- she needed to give Olivia a little break from the constant commotion. As you can see these young women of mine (Heidi included of course) are able to lift mountains... but here are a few facts about this group of amazing women you might not know-

They are mothers of a total of 23. They possess 3 BS degrees, 2 AS degrees, and ALL have college credit. Their many talents include- cooking, gardening, photography, budgeting, basketball, soccer, walleyball, beading, decorating, scrap booking, card making, sewing, singing, playing the piano, clogging, cake decorating, writing and much more. They live in Montana, Idaho, Utah, Oregon, and Washington. Additionally, they have lived or will soon live in Florida, Arizona, Connecticut, Alaska, Oklahoma, Colorado, Georgia, Texas, California, Illinois, Ecuador, Venezuela, and Africa- and maybe more. Missions served (including by sons and husbands)- Central States, England, Santa Rosa California, Detroit Michigan, Johannesburg South Africa, 2 to Venezuela, Jacksonville Florida, and Charlotte North Carolina. They were married or sealed in the following temples: Cardston Alberta Canada, Idaho Falls, Portland Oregon, Mount Timpanogos, Johannesburg South Africa, 2 at Billings Montana, and Salt Lake City Utah.

a little secret... one of them LOVES to read. So much so that she might have missed her flight to Denver. No worries...

a little delay but some of the sisters remained behind to wait for her , they piled into the second rental car and all was well.

There you have just a little bit of family "trivia", but nothing trivial. We are so blessed to have this wonderful family united eternally by the blessings of the temple.

WIRELESS PARENTING

2009-05-21T15:12:00.005-06:00

Day #2 we took a trip to the Castle Rock Outlet Mall. (day 1 was travel day.. .story later)We were ready for serious shopping-money and credit cards in hand.

A quick stop at the food court. Fred finds the sign on the table. Quite amusing- but believe me nothing was free!!

I noticed how frequently someone in our group was on the phone talking to children or reassuring harried husbands. I snapped a few pictures, but wasn't quite quick enough to get everyone.

Once a Mother...

Just girls

2009-05-20T17:34:00.002-06:00

Our girls secetly planned a trip to Colorado Springs to suprise us for Mother's day. After Kelli heard me saying I didn't think it was a good idea to plan surprise visits (Well maybe I did say it more than once!) she contacted the rest of the gang and WARNED them. They decided they should let us know. I am SO glad they did. It gave me something too look forward to and I had such fun thinking about it from the minute I found out. My beautiful girls, 7 daughters (some by birth, some by marriage- all by covenant), my dear Mom and one little bitty granddaugther named Olivia. We had a wonderful time. This group photo is in the front of our house.

I better warn you... there are more pics to come!

I am the LUCKIEST woman in the world.

Family Time!!!

2009-05-17T16:33:00.005-06:00

You may think we are pretty boring grandparents because the "family visit" posts always look the same. Well, think what you want- but our philosophy is you can't improve upon perfection. So here it is... ITZ, Memorial Park, Redneck bathtub and Garden of the Gods. Same agenda- different family. We so enjoyed having Kevin, Heidi and the kids spend a few days with us. We loved meeting little Olivia for the first time, and getting reacquainted with Ashton and Chloe. We are so glad they came... and so sad they had to leave.

2009-05-05T14:51:00.002-06:00

Here we are with two young Missionaries at the Eisenhower/Johnson Tunnel in Colorado on our way to Moab Utah -quick trip to take care of some business.

Traveling with these fine young men was so much fun. They fired questions at Elder Fairhurst, pretty much nonstop. Although most of the questions were fairly serious and of a doctrinal nature, never forget that in some ways these Elders are still kids.

So I got quite a kick out of some of the questions.

Like... "Elder Fairhurst, have you ever been to Area 51?

Do they really keep aliens there?"

Or... "Elder Fairhurst, do you believe there is such a thing as Big Foot?"

We do so LOVE those young men, but after all

"boys will be boys!"

Smith Family visit

2009-04-16T20:42:00.002-06:00

We had a great time with the Smiths. Here is the obligatory

Red Neck bathtub picture. The family picture was taken at

Memorial Park on a lovely spring day. Molly was demonstrating

her new found talent, you could call it nostril trolling!

We Believe in Miracles

2009-04-05T19:02:00.007-06:00

I truly believe in miracles. Some people think miracles are always mysterious and unexplainable events that defy the laws of nature. Although that can seemingly be the case sometimes, I believe miracles are simply evidence of God's hand in our lives and his tender mercies toward his children. We had such a miracle in our mission, and we are so very grateful.

Two of our young missionaries were involved in a serious accident. The picture above shows the mangled remains of the destroyed truck. Per doctors reports they could have easily been killed. Both were injured. One fairly seriously. Amazingly, they are both going to recover. That is a miracle. Other evidence of miracles from this experience? Elder R opened his eyes and found himself in a field after the impact, of which he has no memory. He heard Elder H calling to him from a distance. He was calling for a Priesthood blessing. Elder R could not stand but dragged himself to minister to his missionary companion. They were eventually transported to different hospitals due to the nature of their injuries. Medical professionals at both hospitals that attended to them were members of the church, providing the additional comfort of common faith. One of them was not on her scheduled shift, but was covering for a co-worker. Elder H was placed in the Mercy flight to be transported to a larger hospital. He asked the Pilot to pray for him. The Pilot answered he had never prayed, so our young missionary who was suffering critical injuries taught him to pray. Two missionaries from a neighboring mission stayed in the Hospital until after 1 am so they would be available for Elder H when he came out of surgery. The elderly driver of the truck they were in refused treatment until he knew the young missionaries had been tended to, despite the fact that he was suffering from a compound fracture.
That is not all, but hopefully its enough for you to see why we are so very grateful. God often works his miracles through his children who are willing to hear him. Our hearts are filled with love, we are humbled by the constant care afforded to these two young servants of God, our Faith is confirmed once again.

The week that was...

2009-03-29T19:42:00.006-06:00

Here I go again- Flash back to the 50's (maybe it was 6o's) to a television show called "That was the Week that Was". I vaguely remember it as a recap of events of the previous week. Not exactly a news show, more of an entertaining look back. Here's our version of that show...

Army wives.

We shared FHE with two army families.

Soldiers serving- wives holding down the fort.

The sacrifices they make for the freedoms we enjoy.

Springtime in the Rockies?

We were hit by quite the blizzard.

Can you find the hidden visitor?

A family united as the mother

and two daughters are baptized.

The joyous occasion was the result

of efforts by some great young missionaries.

Saturday at the Flying W.Four of the mission

couples met for a Chuck Wagon dinner and some Cowboy music

in celebration of the 2 Freds' March 15th birthdays.

Two old soldiers reunite.

The leader of the Cowboy band just

happened to be a soldier in the 4th Infantry

Division the same years as Fred. They suspect

their paths crossed- although neither look much

like they did 35 years ago.

There you have it- a capsule of one week in the mission.

What a week it was!

A Wall of Words

2009-03-24T15:13:00.005-06:00

By words we are instructed, counseled, gladdened, motivated, reminded, warned, reassured, educated, entertained INSPIRED and more. In many ways, words are an art form.

This "wall of quotes" is the result of Sister Pfile and Sister Richardson's vision. The two Freds' labor, Misti's talent in creating the vinyl center quote, and just a little input from me. Dozens of cards containing meaningful quotes dot the wall around center. The hope is that missionaries will find inspiring messages to read and maybe to record for future use.

Despite some minor setbacks

when this wall of words came together

Art was created.

Happy Birthday to ....HIM

2009-03-15T15:53:00.009-06:00

Looking back over 57 years-
Here are just a few roles he has played:

Son and Husband

Father and Coach

Chef (sort of) and Firefighter

Colonel and Commander

Hunter and Sportsman

Inmate and floorman

Counselor and GRANDPA

This and more....

AND most importantly the

LOVE of my life

Happy Birthday!

YSA Fireside

2009-03-11T19:50:00.004-06:00

Two weeks ago we had 8 young single adults join us for dinner. After we consumed nearly 7 pounds of pot roast, about 15 pounds of potatoes, fruit salad, a loaf of homemade bread and tossed salad - we sat down to watch a fireside broadcast. Elder Hales (an Apostle of the Lord) shared wise counsel that was pertinent to young and even us oldsters. I loved his advice to often share two short phrases with our spouses. The first is three words, "I love you." The second is 4 words. "We can't afford it." Wise indeed, especially when we consider the state we are in today. What a blessing to have words of wisdom in this confusing world. What fun to spend an evening with some of our favorite "youngsters."

We ended the evening with brownies alamode with homemade hot fudge sauce for dessert. Hmmm maybe I have figured out why my mission clothes are getting snug!!!

Blast from the past

2009-03-09T17:09:00.006-06:00

Sunday we had another of those crazy close encounters we keep having here. I don't mean that in the typical sense. I mean those experiences that always end with the comment "It's such a small world." One of our new Colorado friends introduced us to his sister and her husband, who were here visiting. In the course of conversation we found out that the man we had just met was at one time the mission companion to the missionary that baptized Fred. (Elder C) How fun is that? We have been in contact with Elder C a couple of times over the last few years, including when we first began our Colorado Springs mission. We wanted him to know that the ripples of his influence are continuing on. When we got home from church, Fred sent Elder C a quick email message letting him know about our close encounter. He responded the same evening and sent us this treasure, a real blast from the past.

Here is a picture of our little family from 1975...

The two of us in our prime (YIKES) plus...

Leslie, Randy and Fred's cousin Lyle (who lived with us at the time).

Don't you love the checked pants, white belt, and mustache?

FAMILY FIRST

2009-03-06T19:05:00.007-07:00

Fort Carson FHE

Once a month one of the Wards (congregations) here holds a joint Family Home evening. Individual FHE take place weekly in homes of our church members, all around the world. In these family gatherings, children learn cherished values. They share ideas, fill assignments and have fun. We believe in in putting family first.Our children should spend the most time with and learn the important values from... US! With the current deployment situation- many military families experience the stress and strain of separation. The monthly FHE was organized to support those families.This particular night there were 5 families gathered for a lesson and an activity. One young mother of 5 children (7 years old and younger) is 2 months into a year long separation from her deployed husband. They lean on each other through email and an occasional phone call. She is a real trooper. The other military families are here mostly to offer their support. This is the meaning of Ward Family.

We truly are our brother's keepers.

All in the eye of the beholder

2009-03-02T19:37:00.002-07:00

Before I get to the point of this post, meet our new friends, the Richardsons. They came to our mission the middle of January. What a wonderful addition! I am sure to share more about them as time goes on, but for now..just think FUN.
Sister Richardson LOVES art, REAL art. She is actually quite an expert, so she coaxed us into viewing a temporary exhibit and attending a lecture by the artist. I do not claim to be an educated consumer, I just know what I like. I was a little leery when she told us about the cardboard boxes. Okay NOT actual boxes but wooden replicas. NO KIDDING. I believe the exhibit was titled "The Discarded" -or something similar. The "masterpiece" was a display of boxes. Dell, Dole, pizza, and Reynold's Wrap... got it?. Can you say "Andy Warhol"? If you look closely, you can see one of the boxes in the picture of Elder Richardson above (you can also see the back of the artist's head). It is actually an amazing replica-VERY realistic. You may say (as I did)..."I have a garage full of the real thing." But you should know that the boxes don't stand alone. They are accompanied by a fictional account depicting how they were used by, belonged to or in someway were associated with a celebrity. So now... what do you think? The artist admittedly took weeks to complete some of the replicas. What do I think? He is skilled in creating replicas, clever in writing the fictional account and sincere in his passion for ART... but only as defined by HIM. I actually liked him. He was quite charming... aside from his very political agenda. I also liked some of his art. I could see the skill in his paintings, even though I would describe some as grotesque. I quite liked his whimsical paintings of fruits and vegetables as if they were animated objects. Of course that was until he explained that they represented conflict and the cute little creatures were actually attacking the pumpkin. So as an uneducated consumer I would give him 5 out of 10. I am SO glad we went. It was a fun evening from beginning to end. I enjoyed all of it... the art, the lecture and MOST of all the company. I just think art doesn't have to reflect the dark side of life. Maybe he will come back with a new exhibit some day. Maybe it will be called "The Cherished". I would definitely like to see that one. I might even save my money to own a poster of a copy of a print! Elder Fairhurst just asked where were the pictures of dogs playing poker, fruit bowls and Elvis on velvet. And you thought I was the UNCULTURED one!!!

Sisters

2009-02-07T12:56:00.002-07:00

Hmmm... now what do you call a day spent with 13 Young Sister Missionaries? Well... I think FUN is the best thing to call it. We are so glad we were invited to assist with their day long training. Fred shared his Afghanistan presentation, complete with pictures, video and personal commentary. They were quite the responsive audience and seemed to truly enjoy it.

After that I conducted an exercise called "Portraits in the Dark" which is designed to increase their sense of confidence and self worth as they explore their relationship with the Savior. See the Sisters intently drawing with eyes squeezed shut... NO CHEATING!
H

Look at their Picasso like self portraits. Note the close up of Sis Whiting's drawing. It took first place and won the coveted M&M Dispenser. (Magnificent Missionaries!!!)

MORE GRANDCHILDREN...YEY

2009-02-05T16:51:00.002-07:00

DJ, Kindra and our darling granddaughters came for a short visit last week. Just 3.5 days... but loads of fun and catching up. We are so very glad they came, though a few tears were shed as they left. A few tears is such a small price to pay for time with our family.

Our Gang

2009-01-30T14:29:00.004-07:00

When I was a kid, oh say 100 years ago or so, there was a television show called "Spanky and Our Gang". It was about a group of mischevious kids and their crazy adventures. AND of course it was in glorious black and white. Funny show.Fast forward half a century and meet Our Gang. We are probably closer to the "Over the Hill Gang" than Spanky's gang.

Senior couples of the

Colorado Springs Mission.

The pictures were taken during our all day Senior Retreat. We had a blast! We started with a hardy breakfast from Denny's "senior menu". Next we loaded up the crew and headed to scenic "Garden of the Gods" park, where the senior men posed for some "Moving Mountains" pictures. (Our mission slogan is "Colorado Colorado Springs Mission; Moving Mountains"- so the horse play was actually somewhat fitting).

We then spent an hour touring the world famous art studio of sculptor Michael Garman. After quenching our thirst for culture we headed to a quaint Chinese restaraunt for lunch. The rest of the day was spent in the beautiful mission home. We listened to President Mark McConkie, son of Bruce R. McConkie. His words were entertaining and inspiring. We enjoyed contributions by several of the seniors... "at their best".

Then ended with a barbecue dinner Montana style. Such a wonderful day... such good people... what a gang!

Ahhh...GRANDCHILDREN

2009-01-18T17:02:00.008-07:00

FINALLY... granchildren!
So much fun to have Bostyn and Kamree bring their parents and come hangout!

Okay...Hunter, Cooper, Bryson, Jaron,

Kaila, Kaden,Ashton, Kierra,

Gracie, Kami, Chloe, Jack, Kalea,
Ariana, Molly and Olivia...
WE ARE WAITING!

Ring in the New...

2009-01-06T20:00:00.003-07:00

We welcomed 2009 with 20 house guests. Wall to wall missionaries. They began arriving at about 5:00 on New Year's Eve and the last pair left the afternoon of New Year's Day. It wasn't the first time in our lives that we had to walk over sleeping bodies in the middle of the night. Our home in Montana was often the Spring Break scene. So we were somewhat prepared for this event. We had a blast. Lots of food, movies from the Mission President's approved list, dominoes and other board games... it was quite the party. Of course lights out was long before the dawn of the New Year and 2009 crept in with not a single eye witness in our little house.

2008 was an eventful year...

we look forward to all 2009 will bring.

2008 Christmas Collage

2008-12-28T21:43:00.004-07:00

Though we are far away from home and despite experiencing a few moments of longing for our family and traditions of Christmas's past...

This year
**Three wonderful Baptisms,
**Christmas Eve in the homes of new friends,
**Sharing our little home and Christmas brunch with friends and strangers
** A lovley traditional Christmas dinner with Leola and her family. (True friendship stands the test of time)
**Letters from our family of Christmas memories and testimonies read aloud (a pile of wet Kleenex and a heap of damp paper towels)
**Delicious authentic tamales with the Moraga family
(friendships with a gospel foundation quickly become deep)
**Delivering 7 plates of goodies with Christmas DVDs.

All of this and more will make this truly a Christmas to be remembered.

Parable of the Amaryllis

2008-12-24T15:55:00.007-07:00

On my birthday- eve I received a gift with a promise. The gift itself was plain and nothing to be desired. It came with a bag of rich brown soil, a green pot and some instructions. For the doubting heart, it might have been considered a thing of naught and quickly discarded. But because I had great faith in the giver, I hoped that following the directions would bring a beautiful reward.

So faithfully I read and heeded the directions. I placed the bulb in the soil and added the water. I carefully placed it where it would receive sunlight and and warmth. Then I waited and watched .

I was excited to see the bulb produce a green shoot that grew several inches in just one week. My faith in the gift grew just as the green shoot had grown.

The next week I suffered a moment of doubt. Oh, the shoot grew rapidly it was true. But there was no blossom, no thing of beauty as I had hoped. Still, I continued nurturing and caring for the growing plant. This I did because I had faith in the giver of the gift.

Just about three weeks from the day I received the gift, the reward came. Beautiful bright blossoms. Just three weeks of heeding the word and nurturing my faith and the beautiful gift arrived.
I trusted the giver (my Mother) and had faith in the Word (the instructions). Though it required some effort on my part, the reward was truly a gift.
As the world celebrates the glorious gift of the Savior of mankind. Let us remember to have Faith in the Giver, to heed the Word, to nurture our growing Faith- and the Gift we most certainly will receive will be more Glorious than we could even imagine.
Merry Christmas to all of you,
my dear family and friends

SWEET TRADITIONS

2008-12-21T20:53:00.003-07:00

Yummy...aren't these beautiful cookies. They tasted even better than they look. Our friend Liz and her two sons made them for us. I LOVE Christmas cookies.

When the kids were little we would make them every year. I would mix the dough and pull out all the cookie cutters. The kids would help roll the dough out, cut the cookies in their favorite shapes and place them on a cookie sheet. Then when they cooled we would decorate them. The kids helped with everything- except maybe the clean up. It was messy, but worth it. Now I just get to reap the benefits of other people's talents. I like that a lot... but I do miss those chubby little sticky fingers helping me make plates of Christmas sweets.

NEW TRADITIONS

2008-12-21T20:39:00.007-07:00

The only thing better than Zone Conference... CHRISTMAS ZONE CONFERENCE

Ward parties

2008-12-21T20:17:00.006-07:00

Ronny and his kids- Little Ronny, Johnny and Morning Star. We have been friends with them since we were here in January of 2008. In fact they have become like family to us. Poor little Morning Star doesn't like that man in the white beard very much.

Santa welcomes our new friends to the Christmas party. Amber and Daniel will be baptized a few days after Christmas. The Elders are our zone leaders and very good missionaries.It was a fun party.

Ward Christmas parties are definitely a big part of our holiday tradition. I seem to enjoy them a little more now than when I had to decorate, cook and chase kids every year. Or then again, maybe its just being a missionary that has made me appreciate this annual tradition... I'll give that some thought.

A Christmas Celebration

2008-12-13T21:03:00.009-07:00

As long as I can remember, the weeks between Thanksgiving and New Year's Day have been completely filled. Shopping, decorating, baking, writing Christmas cards and many other things crowd our schedules and sometimes stress us out or wear us down. Still, I love this Season. Don't you think people are just a little friendlier? Just a tad kinder. Maybe more patient- well just a little more. This year we will spend our very first Christmas without family. We are not complaining. We truly believe nothing of importance happens without some level of sacrifice. We are so blest to have phones, cell phones, email, blogs, websites, digital pictures and good old fashioned mail. It keeps us so close to the people we love the most. We are also so very blessed to share this time of year with our Mission Family. There is no finer group of people anywhere. We are unified in the most rewarding work on this earth- bringing Souls to Christ. So, though we will miss the presence of our family- we feel so very close to them as we celebrate the birth of our Savior. These pictures are of the Mission Office Staff- plus President Pfile. We had a little office party in our home. It was so much fun. We hope your Christmas season is filled with celebrations. We wish you joyous times with family and friends. We pray your hearts are filled with gratitude and love in remembrance of the birth of Jesus Christ.

Fresh Bread Anyone?

2008-12-07T13:46:00.005-07:00

Elder Fairhurst decided I should follow in the footsteps of Sister Searle. She made homemade bread for Institute class every Tuesday night. Knowing I am not too inclined to do so, and definitely not that skilled... he bought me a bread machine for my birthday. Its wonderful. Nice hot light bread with very little effort. Its not quite Sister Searle's wonderful light wholewheat bread, but it will do.

We LOVE those Elders

2008-12-07T13:33:00.003-07:00

This trio of young Elders attended our Ward Christmas party. Don't you wonder what they asked of Santa? I am pretty sure they have been mostly nice, although once in a while SOME of our missionaries can be just a little tiny bit naughty. Mostly related to the mission cars they drive. Since we've been here our missionaries have "bagged" 2 deer, 1 elk, 1 racoon, a few curbs and 1 flying trampoline. Then there was the brand new car that was victim to a snowball fight which shattered the outside mirrors. Oh the stories Elder Fairhurst has to tell. All those years of dealing with broken down junky vehicles and impulsive teen drivers has paid off. I assure you he has developed a much kinder gentler approach than the one he used with our teens!

2008-12-07T13:25:00.004-07:00

Last week we had a beautiful heavy winter snow storm. Perfect to put one in the Christmas mood. A few brave young missionaries were out on foot and dropped by the office to warm up a bit. They were bundled to their teeth. For some it was the first such snow storm ever. We loved the snow... and we sure love those missionaries.

Happy Birthday to... ME!!!

2008-11-29T19:49:00.007-07:00

Sunday is my birthday. I must be the luckiest 56 year old girl in the whole wide world. I still love having birthdays, even if I don't much like the numbers. I have so many fond memories of my birthday. I think I was about 8 when Mom bought me my first Barbie. I was so excited. Mom has mentioned her disappointment that she didnt get me a real Barbie (funny... there is no such thing as a real Barbie). But as for me... I was thrilled. So thanks Mom. I remember my 15th birthday. I dieted the summer before and started 8th grade slim and trim. Mom bought me a beautiful sweater that year. I really did feel beautiful. Thanks again! When our kids were little they always made a big deal out of my birthday... and they still do. Thanks kids. Fred has tried various interesting ways to surprise me. Like the year he left to go "pick up dinner" so I wouldn't have to cook. Then he came home with a vibrating back massager (for me???) and a pizza from Sam's Club. Thanks Fred... I think. Sorry I couldn't resist mentioning that one, but it was the exception to the rule. He has always found ways to make me feel loved and appreciated on my birthday. And always tells me he thinks I am beautiful then laughs when I roll my eyes. When I turned 40 Mom and Fred planned the perfect celebration. No crowd ready to jump out and yell surprise. No embarrassment. Just my family, gifts, funny stories and lots of love. My friend Lynda never forgets my birthday. Not even the year she was away on a Disney Cruise. This morning beautiful flowers arrived and no surprise the card said "Happy Birthday Susan, from Jim and Lynda". Mom always calls to sing a few lines of Happy Birthday, no matter where I am. My Grandmother also used to call me every birthday and send me a card with 2 brand new 1 dollar bills. Its been 23 years since she passed away, but I think of her and it makes me smile even though I miss her. This year is bitter sweet for me. Its the first year that I will miss hearing Dad call me Sue Lynn and wishing me a happy birthday. I think about him every day and miss him so very much. Even though my heart hurts, I am so very grateful for him and look forward to the day I will again hear his voice. Loving parents, my sweet Grandmother, a devoted husband, wonderful children and grandchildren- truly the best family ever- plus good friends. I really am the luckiest 56 year old girl in the whole wide world.

Gratitude for new friends

2008-11-26T22:45:00.003-07:00

Meet Elder and Sister Grover.

Our dear new friends. They run the mission office. I think they actually run the mission, but don't tell President Pfile.

The Grovers have served for over two and a half years. Guess what? Just when they were about to be released, they immediately put their papers in to serve another two years. They are amazing. They live about 75 miles away. Each weekday morning, they drive their car to a Park 'n Ride and catch a bus to Colorado Springs. More than an hour later, they get off the bus, hop into their other car and drive straight to the mission office. They reverse the process at the end of the day. Day after day, week after week, and now year after year. They just don't understand why EVERYONE doesn't want to do the same. They are so much fun. Everybody loves them, especially us. We just wish we could keep up with them.

Grateful for traditions

2008-11-22T16:16:00.005-07:00

Don't you just love the Holidays? I especially love traditions. Most families have their own versions Here are just a few of our traditions.

Years ago I began decorating my kitchen cork board with family pictures embellished with seasonal decorations. Not very long after we were settled here in Colorado, I realized I really NEEDED a cork board in this kitchen. Here is my Thanksgiving display. Sorry for the glare- but I couldn't eliminate it no matter how hard I tried.

For the third year in a row, we are holding our Christmas Jar contest. All through the year we throw our loose change into a large jar. Near Thanksgiving we post a picture of the jar on our family website and invite everyone to guess the total. The person with the closest guess receives the amount in the jar. It has been over $150 each year. Its so much fun to see what the little kids guess. One year our grandson Kaden guessed "3 minutes"- he almost won!

Every Christmas, Fred's mother would make hundreds of popcorn balls. She was careful to make sure each family had plenty of their favorite kind. Personally, my favorite is raspberry. My sister-in-law, Candi, started a tradition in her honor. Sometime in November, family members who are available gather and make her famous popcorn balls. Her birthday is November 13th and I know she is smiling down to see her posterity remember her in this manner.

I guess that will do for now.... but be warned... I am just getting started.

Grateful for joyous memories

2008-11-22T12:31:00.004-07:00

Yesterday we drove out to Fort Carson to check on a young family. The address sounded familiar- with good reason. It soon became clear that we were visiting the very home we had lived in over 35 years ago. It was an amazing experience to walk through those doors and have memories come flooding in. The kitchen where I cooked meals for our little family of four. The yard and playground where 4 year old Leslie and 2 year old Randy played. We were young then. We were broke most of the time. Yet this home is Holy ground for us. It was here that Fred was taught and excepted the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Most of last week was spent attending Zone conferences. One in particular brought tender memories. As we sat in the Relief Society room at the Broadmore Building, I was overwhelmed as I recalled that it was in that very room I came back to the church after years of inactivity. I had met Elaine Rice at a Squadron party. She invited me to attend RS with her. At that time it was held during the week. She came and picked me up. I was a little nervous walking into the building, but the minute I heard the hymns of the Gospel I knew I was home. I am so grateful for her simple invitation.

Grateful for our Leaders

2008-11-22T10:20:00.002-07:00

Meet President and Sister Pfile. They may well be the busiest people I have ever met. When I drop to the couch at an end of a busy day, I often think about them. For there really is NO end to their day. You could say they have about 150 children to watch over. Adult children, but children still. They counsel, advise, lift, inspire, motivate, serve, pray for, cry with and ever love their missionaries. Despite all these demands they radiate joy in all they do. They are truly filled with the Spirit and an abiding sense of gratitude. So as we prepare for Thanksgiving, we want to express our gratitude for the opportunity to serve with these wonderful leaders. We feel their love and our Savior's love as we labor daily in this great and marvelous work.

Ahhhh... Zone Conference

2008-11-14T19:59:00.004-07:00

We are in the middle of Zone Conferences. If you have no idea what that means, picture a family reunion of totally unrelated people who love each other and are thrilled to spend a few hours together. Then imagine that it is a group of about 30 people where the vast majority are between 19 and 22 years old. Think energy, enthusiasm, motion and Spirit. Remember to picture just a few older missionaries less entergetic - but who still have the enthusiasm and Spirit. What do we do? We learn of Christ. We share stories of success in spreading His word. We are taught how to show His love to others by the way we treat them. We laugh together. When touching stories are told, a few tears may fall. There may be a few practical jokes. Or even some gentle scolding from our Mission President. In short, it is a wonderful inspirational experience. We are motivated to try harder. We are filled with love for the Lord, for each other and for all those we serve. We LOVE Zone Conference week. Elder Faihurst and I inspect the mission vehicles and train the young missionaries about vehicle safety. So we get to go to several zone conferences every six weeks. I hope the spirit of these occasions comes through in these pictures.

Foxy visitor

2008-11-08T15:47:00.005-07:00

We looked out our window today to see a

red fox crossing our street.

A real live red fox. He seemed pretty brave to be wondering around among the cars and the humans. When I stepped out on our front porch to snap a picture, he turned and looked at me. I am not sure if it was me or my fuzzy pink robe, but something scared him off. I wish I could have gotten a closer picture. I hate to think about it, but I am pretty sure that the fat squirrels in this neighborhood keep Mr Foxy around.

Calling All Grandkids

2008-11-01T19:01:00.006-06:00

The play room is ready. Thanks to Walmart, Target, Craig's list and the Flea Market! We have cars and trucks, ponies and dolls, dinosaurs and plastic heroes, legos and books, doll houses and stuffed animals. Pretty much something for everyone. We just need some grandkids!!!

Family Historical Sites

2008-10-26T17:14:00.008-06:00

Last Sunday we took a stroll down memory lane... mostly MY memory. I was pleased and a bit surprised that I could remember these "family historical sites".

This family home was purchased by my Grandfather, William Clifton Butts. He died when my mother was five years old, but the family held on to this home for years. 922 Baltic. I have several memories of living there when I was about 3. Some of you may have seen a picture of me in the front yard in a "fru fru" dress with my Grandpa Spargur.

Around the corner is Mill Street, where several family members lived. This house belonged to Great Great Aunt Grace. She was my Grandma Spargur's aunt. I remember her as a very nice white haired lady. The back yard was tiered and she had lots and lots of flowers. She would give us money when we came to see her. At first it was a quarter, but later a dollar or two.

If you drive a couple of blocks down Mill street you come to Myrtle White's home, she is my Great Grandmother. I have many fond memories of "Gom Gom". We always visited her and she was always loving and kind. Of course I remember this house being much bigger... .but then maybe I was much littler.

There you have it. A few choice family historical sites. What a choice blessing to have these memories and feel the connection to generations.

Home Sweet Home

2008-10-26T15:29:00.005-06:00

What fun to live in this 100+ yr.old house. The glorious mountains near by. Beautiful colorful falling leaves outside. Fat squirrels stopping by to say hello. Touches of family are all around us. Grandma White's swing on the front porch. Aunt Dorothy's art and decorating style. Wooden pieces made by my Father. In my mind I can clearly see my Grandmother sitting by the window in the corner reading her book and glancing out at the neighborhood. Memories of holidays and vacations. Memories that bring such joy. We feel such a sense of connection to family members everyday. This little house is filled with warmth and comfort. The two pictures above show that we have added a few Fairhurst touches. We have already had several dinners here. Over the next couple years, much missionary work will take place here... in this comfortable warm family home.

Mr and Mrs Fred Fairhurst

2008-10-23T20:58:00.005-06:00

-8 Beautiful daughters and 7 handsome sons

-18 wonderful grandchildren

-21 homes in 5 states

AND...living on the same block for over 30 years

-Having our parents nearby as we raised our family

-More cars than we can remember ie: 4 vans, 3 station wagons,

several pickup trucks, a Studebaker and a Gremlin

& now...A white 65 Mustang for our retirement years

-Trips to Canada, Puerto Rico, South Africa and to...

San Diego, Boston, Miami & DC- just to name a few

-Many deployment separations followed by joyous reunions

-Year after year of no money left once the bills were paid

...Followed by Years of prosperity

-College tuitions and wedding expenses

-ER visits, stitches, broken bones, flu and rashes

-dogs named Gipper, Striker and Mickey,

a cat named Snowball, 2 turtles, lizards and one ugly rat

-7 wonderful Temple weddings

-5 missionary children and now...

1 Senior Missionary couple

-Tears of Joy ... Tears of Sorrow... Tears of Inspiration

Good friends from our youth and new friends to meet

Hours and hours of church service- and ever being blessed

Add 9 beautiful peach colored roses and...

You have 39 years of love and adventure-

39 years of marriage!

Missionary WORK!

2008-10-21T17:58:00.004-06:00

I think we have made it clear that we love our mission. We associate with the best people with whom we share a common purpose. Working in the mission office has really opened my eyes to how much WORK there is in missionary work. Supporting the efforts of over 150 missionaries is a daunting task to say the least. Housing, transportation, medical needs, emotional challenges, bills to pay, meetings to coordinate, training and more... all this goes on 365 days a year. Add to that the fact our mission includes parts of 4 states - well I think you get the picture.

We have taken on the management of the fleet of mission vehicles as an additional duty. It has been challenging but rewarding also. To give you a little feel for what we have been doing pay special attention to the desk in the before and after pictures below.

2008-10-12T17:55:00.002-06:00

This picture was taken at the entrance to the MTC. The young lady in the picture was our trainer/teacher for our Preach My Gospel lessons. All the teachers were young returned missionaries. Sister Pinegar served her mission in Italy. She was full of energy and enthusiasm. I can still hear her sweet voice saying..."Elders and Sisters, you are amazing." or "Well done, Elders and Sisters." We were all old enough to be her... well maybe her grandparents. We grew quite attached to her. She acted as if we were her best class ever. Of course I am sure another class of senior couples will begin their training tomorrow and will soon here Sister Pinegar saying.... you are amazing.

Missionary Experience

2008-10-09T21:36:00.003-06:00

During our MTC training we had the opportunity to answer the phones in the call center. This is where people call to get free videos, books and other church materials. I tried to think of any reasonable excuse to avoid this "opportunity". On the otherhand, Elder Fairhurst was pretty jazzed about it. We had a brief training, which basically consisted of "put the headset on and if the phone rings push this button and talk". About a dozen from our group were together in one of the call rooms. I sat next to Fred. I could see him intently staring at his phone, trying to make it ring. At the same time I was sending a silent plea to the switchboard - PLEASE don't let my phone ring. Guess whose phone rang. Mine of course. I adjusted the headset and pushed the button, feeling just a little like Lily Tomlin... "one ringy dingy"! Then I spent the next five minutes talking to a man in Texas and his neighbor. Such nice people. They just wanted a copy of the Book of Mormon. I took their info and shared my joy in reading this blessed book of scripture. When I hung up, I turned around to see that everyone was watching me and cheering me on. I did it! What's more I actually enjoyed it. A couple of minutes later Fred's phone rang. He was so excited. Unfortunately it was someone who only spoke Spanish so he had to give the phone to one of our trainers. A young man who just happened to have served a Spanish speaking mission in Colorado Springs of all places. I have a feeling this won't be the last time I have to step out of my comfort zone while we serve this mission. Maybe I will get used to it eventually.

51 New Friends

2008-10-05T18:30:00.002-06:00

This is our MTC class. Good looking group- wouldn't you say? What wonderful people! I might be the one hiding behind the plant!

We so enjoyed getting to know them during our first week of training. In this group are couples going to Iceland, France, Mexico, Australia, Marshall Islands, India, Czech Republic, Canada, Switzerland, Kenya, Korea, Ukraine, Germany and Albania. Not to mention... New York, North Carolina, Pennsylvania, Florida, Texas, Montana, Colorado, Illinois and Arkansas.

These missionaries will perform specific duties in their assigned locations. Such duties as: helping to preserve historic documents, managing humanitarian aid, assisting military families, directing tours of historic sites, managing the perpetual education funds, working with the church education programs and more. They will all be serving others and teaching the word of God. Could there be a finer group with which to associate?

Fifteen missionary couples from our group stayed with us as we received CES training the first three days of the second week. I can only belive there could be few groups like this in the entire world!

These 16 Senior Missionary Couples represent some amazing Stats, especially in today's world. Together they had a combined... 669 years of marriage, 94 children, 261 grandchildren. The missionaries average age? Well no one was telling. But for ONCE the Fairhursts were among the youngsters.

We will ever remember our MTC experiences and will share more in future posts.

The last of the farewell torture tour.

2008-10-04T06:47:00.005-06:00

We were able to spend quite a bit of time with DJ and family while we were in Utah. On Sunday, Sept 28th we went to church with them. Afterwards we took a quick picture, hugged everyone and said the last goodbyes of this torture tour. I am quite sure that Kleenex stock is in good shape despite the current economy!

We know that we are blessed for sacrifices we make in service. Elder Fairhurst and I often comment on how little sacrifice we are making. We love living in this cherished family home. We love Colorado. We love our Mission President and his wife. But in the end, the real sacrifice we make is being separated from our family and friends. From Boise, to Forest Grove, to Spokane Valley, to Great Falls, to Orem and Billings... we have left that which we cherish most of all. When our Stake President set me apart as a missionary, he blessed me that the Lord would watch over my family. I trust that to be true. So, though we do miss you all... we feel very close to you as we serve our Savior's children here in CO. We love the phone calls and emails. The pictures and Blog posts. The updates on MyFamily.com. So keep them coming- and come see us when you can.

At Home in Colorado

2008-09-16T14:43:00.005-06:00

Sister and Elder have been busy packing. As for us... we spent weeks packing and loading boxes into our new trailer. Then on Tuesday, Sept 9th our mission adventure began.We survived one more leg of the "farewell torture tour" as we said goodbye to Jake's family and the Smiths. Then we had a fun couple of days with the Pearsons before the next round of tears. The good news is... just one more leg and this torture tour is over. Well, for a few months until we begin saying goodbye to everyone here. Thus is life when you are a "SENIOR" couple. We arrived in Colorado Springs Friday the 12th... "F-Squad Adventures" van in tow. (watch for a picture in the near future). We have had a blast setting up house here- our home away from home. Not only that, but we have had so much fun re-connecting with friends and meeting other missionaries. We just know this is going to be a wonderful experience.
Right now we are awaiting the arrival of Mom and our family friend, Barbara Lee. They are enjoying their own travel adventures. We are so happy to have them come - our FIRST overnight visitors- hopefully the first of MANY!!!

On a Serious note...

2008-09-07T15:06:00.002-06:00

We have been having such fun with this blog, but we feel impressed to take a moment to share some sincere feelings with you.

Today we were set apart as full time missionaries for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and as ambassadors of our Lord Jesus Christ. Why are we voluntarily leaving our home and family for 18 months or more? Why would we decide to commit to missionary labors so soon after retiring from full time employment?

The answer is so very simple- because of love. We are so blessed and so grateful to our Heavenly Father and our Savior for the blessings in our life. We stand in awe over the richness of the blessings we have received through the gospel of Jesus Christ. We love Him with all our hearts. We owe Him everything. Sharing this joy with others is the desire of our hearts and we are thrilled to have the opportunity to do so. He will watch over our loved ones. He will open the doors for us so we can bless his children. He will inspire us with the words we need to share and comfort us if we grow weary. Even in our service to Him -He ever serves us. For we know He lives and loves us. We know the church is true. We love the Scriptures and the words of the Prophets and find in them joy, solice, direction and peace.

So I think the question really is ... Why wouldn't we want to share these things with the people we meet? Why wouldn't we want to show our Father and His Son how much we love them? It really seems like such a smalll token of gratitude. We are delighted to have this opportunity.

That Christ lives is our testimony. To bring souls unto Christ is our purpose.
Elder and Sister Fairhurst

2008-09-05T12:36:00.005-06:00

Spokane was our last stop on our mini-vacation. We had such a nice visit. Kevin & Heidi were very hospitable despite the fact that she had been having some labor pains- expecting Olivia to arrive within the week. The kids played so well together. The adults chatted and played Mexican Train. Here are a few pictures of some of my adorable, brilliant, witty, creative, wonderful GRANDKIDS and of course the parents- OUR children.

Saturday cartoons & cousins on the couch

A Mini Family Vacation

2008-09-04T16:34:00.003-06:00

We just returned from our "Farewell Torture Tour". Actually the only torture was watching Fred say goodbye to grandchildren.

We took Elder & Sister and headed our van for the family circuit. First to Boise where we reunited the Mini's with Leslie Mini. Then to New Meadow, ID to visit cousins Perk and Una. Next to Lewiston to see sister Mickey and have dinner with sister Betty, brothers Glenn and Jim and their wives Katie and Diana. And a wonderful reunion with cousin Gene after 20 years. So much family and so much fun!!!

Elder and Sister Mini join the Adventure

2008-08-22T13:58:00.007-06:00

Hmm... don't they remind you of... well never mind! These two little missionaries will be traveling with us for the next two years and will frequently be featured in this blog. This picture is Elder and Sister at the Cardston temple on August 21, 2008. We took them with our friends, Mel & Arlene Green, Nancy Lealos & Lola Tracy. We had a wonderful trip. Our good friend Sue is the master mind behind the world of the mini's. It all began when she made Mini Mark, years ago. Mini Mark traveled with Sue's husband Mark all over the globe. When Fred took his troops to Saudi Arabia in 2002- he met Mini Mark. So he decided all of our girls needed Mini's also. He contacted Sue via email and ordered dolls for our girls for Christmas that year.

One of our sweet girls is missing from this picture- that's Kindra. She joined our family later, and she received a mini-bride doll! We LOVE our friend Sue- she so generously shares her talents. And now we are the proud owners of our own Mini's. On another topic, here is some interesting "distance information" for those families who may be remotely interested in visiting us on our mission:

--Colorado Springs to Provo, UT: 550 miles

--Colorado Springs to Billings, MT: 624 miles

--Colorado Springs to Boise, ID: 901 miles

--Colorado Springs to Gt. Falls, MT: 842 miles

--Colo Springs to Spokane Valley, WA: 1154 miles

--Colo Springs to Portland, OR: 1328 miles

Mission Wardrobe

2008-08-19T22:05:00.002-06:00

One black suit from JC Penny- $175.00
Two ladies' blazers -Herberger's yellow dot sale-$45
Three skirts from Sears clearance rack- $20 TOTAL!

Having your sweetheart for a mission companion and reluctant shopping partner... PRICELESS.

Mission Boundaries

2008-08-17T14:28:00.002-06:00

Do you want to know where we will spend our time for the next 18 plus months? The yellow portion of this map shows the Colorado Springs Mission boundaries. Just in case it's hard to see... it includes significant areas of southern Colorado and western Kansas. It also includes a little piece of New Mexico and the pan handle of Oklahoma. I am sure my father is looking down from heaven smiling- knowing that we are serving in a mission that includes a portion of his beloved Oklahoma.

We aren't sure how much, if any, we will travel, but we will certainy spend a great deal of our time right in Colorado Springs, which happens to be my mother's home town. Didn't I say that this mission was just made for us? Also, our good friends Tom and Patty live in the portion of Kansas that is included in our mission. We hope to reconnect with them during our time there.

Today we spoke in our home ward. I guess you could call it a mission farewell- even though they don't technically exist. My talk was entitled "These Things I Believe". I testified to these 5 gospel principles.

We are children of Heavenly Father and He knows and loves each one of us.
Jesus Christ is our Savior and Redeemer -Through his Atonement we can be forgiven of our sins.
After his crucifixion, Christ rose from the dead- breaking the bonds of death for all mankind.
The Book of Mormon is the word of God and contains truths unto salvation and guidance for our life on earth.
Our Prayers are answered.

Fred took his talk from the war chapters of the book of Alma. He talked about "Strongholds", both in the Book of Mormon times and in our day. He warned that leaving our strongholds places us in danger, but staying within them provides us protection. We should cling to such strongholds as prayer, scripture study, following the Prophet- and so on. He shared his personal experience in Afghanistan and how he lost one of his troops who removed his body armor. He did such a good job of reminding us to hold to our strongholds.

Today I felt the reality of our mission call stronger than ever- and that it is so very close.

Why F-Squad?

2008-08-12T21:25:00.005-06:00

My husband LOVES cars. Not the shiny new models with the bells and whistles. Not the custom ordered top of the line just came out this year status symbols. No... he loves the fixer upper hobby type of cars. The kind you find in an alley or in someone's barn. One that hasn't been started or driven for a decade or more. The kind of cars that have "potential". We have had more than our share. Granted he has made some great finds- like our 1956 Chevy Bel Air or our cute white 1965 Mustang. Then again there have been a few lemons. Like the car that the previous owner left running while he sat in the garage and inhaled the fumes- too morbid to go into more detail. Or the huge Highway Patrol reject Fred had our teenagers driving because it was "safe". They loved the spotlights mounted on the outside of the car.

What does that have to do with F-Squad? Well these pictures are of the 12 passenger van we owned in the early 1980's. Fred bought it from a group home. The kids had a nickname the two-toned brown van with the footprints on the interior headliner- but it would not be considered very PC today so I will spare you that bit of info. (hint- it had to do with the fact that it came from a group home for adult DD clients and it wasn't a swear word- but would be considered offensive now).

Fred was so proud of this find that he promptly went to get personalized plates. He intended to get F-Troop, after an old tv comedy we watched when television was first invented. Of course the "F" would stand for Fairhurst. Unfortunately, that was taken. So he quickly came up with F-Squad as the alternative. From that day forward our family became known as the F-Sqaud. And there you have it. I hope that gives you some insight into our family nickname and to the wonderful man I married.

Military...what?

2008-08-09T14:31:00.004-06:00

We received a very interesting call on Thursday! Before I tell you more about that- let me give you a little background.

We are a military family. Although, I think sometimes we didn't think of ourselves that way. Fred joined the army in 1972. I will probably post more about Fred's career in the future but for now just know that he loved his military career. He retired as an Air Force Colonel on May 31st 2008.

I have had several jobs since I graduated with a degree in Sociology (that was in 1991- but that is another story altogether). Not all were a good fit. The best job ever was my last job, running the Montana Air National Guard family program. I have no doubt that this job was an answer to a prayer. I learned so much about the military during my four plus years in that position. Fred and I had a blast working together. He loves to tell everyone that he was my boss.

So what does that have to do with our phone call? When I answered the phone on Thursday, the man on the other end asked if this was the Fairhurst home. For a minute I thought it was a telemarketer. I almost hung up...YIKES. I confirmed and the caller identified himself as Elder Hancock from the Church Offices. YIKES again. A few thoughts ran through my head- like maybe we weren't going on a mission after all. Then he asked if we received our mission call yet. When I said we had, he then explained the purpose of his call. He works in the Military Relations program and he was so happy to have us serve a Military Relations Mission. WHAT?? We are serving a military relations mission?? Yep- we are. He told both of us all about it and we could not possibly be more excited. We will still fulfill other duties assigned by our mission president, Brian Pfile. But our primary responsibility is to work with young Airmen and Soldiers in training (including FHE and Institute) and families experiencing deployments. Can you believe it? This mission really was made for us.

When Heavenly Father answered my prayers by helping me to get the job as the guard family program coordinator, I had no idea that he had a very specific purpose for me to gain that experience. I am so grateful and SO excited.

Elder and Sister Fairhurst

2008-08-06T15:54:00.003-06:00

We received some great news about our first big retirement adventure! After weeks and weeks of waiting and hoping, our mission call arrived in the mail on Saturday! Although it wasn't a big surprise, we were elated to see that we will be serving in the Colorado Springs mission for a period of 18 months. With a special assignment to serve on military bases. Signed by our beloved prophet Thomas S. Monson.

WOW! This mission was made just for us and we are ready to go. We will share many of our experiences in this Blog.